i'm pretty comfortable with he/him, but they/them or neos are preferred. masculine nouns (husband, bro, etc.) are always okay to use for me ♥

these are my favorite out of the general pronouns! they/them and gender-neutral nouns (lover, friend, etc.) are always okay to use for me ♥

these are never, ever okay. please refrain from referring to me as she/her or by feminine nouns (wife, girl, etc.)